Here's the basic outline:
Has God really said?
Point one: the nature of revelation: God has spoken. This is the Word of God. He has spoken, and we need to acknowledge that fact.
This is the essence of temptation: to look at the situation and wonder if what God said applies.
We must determine that if God has spoken, we will obey---
If God has really said: "Fathers do not provoke your children to anger but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." (Eph 6:4)
Then what should we do? What should the focus be?
If God has really said: "If anyone's name was not written in the book of life, he was thrown into the lake of fire." (Rev 20:15)
What should we be about as God's people? After all, has He not also said "Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations?"
We must obey that which He has said.